Posts by Anita Blake
Checking In!
When we think of the words “checking in,” we might think of checking on our loved ones when we haven’t spoken to them in a while. We “check in” to vacation accommodations or hotels to let them know we are there. Parents also must faithfully “check-in” to their children’s lives as we are being made…
Read MoreNonsense
A grandmother was being helped by her young granddaughter in decorating her Christmas trees. Traditions established by the grandmother had a “Jesus” tree and a second tree, which was an “all other” ornament tree. The “Jesus” tree would be adorned with all ornaments that referred to the Lord, to the Nativity, and anything to do…
Read MoreWhere is the ‘Baby’?
In our cultural emphasis to remove God, and faith in Him, from the public square, we have lost the true meaning of Christmas. Christmas celebrations will never have a lasting impact on our children if we make it all about their gifts and our busyness. Christmas is a grave disappointment without Christ at the center.…
Read MoreWhat Will We Do With Christmas?
It is the most wonderful time of the year! Choose now how you will use this special season to create memories, enjoy your family, and avoid the attitude of Christmas being a “burden or bother.” Remember without fail that Christmas is about a “Babe Born in a Manger” (Luke 2). Embrace the calendar and schedule…
Read MoreIn All Things Give Thanks
Parenting is difficult and challenging. The burden and responsibility that goes with it can often rob us of our joy and thanksgiving that comes along with the opportunity we are given to shape a life. Don’t let that happen. “And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus…
Read MoreSelf or Sacrifice
Attitude is defined as “a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior.” Our attitude toward others is lived out in how we value and treat them. This is no different between husband and wife than it is between parent and child. I recently…
Read MoreGod’s Creation, God’s Design!
When we think in terms of design, we think of a plan and intention of an idea or thing. Everything God established in creation was by design. His design is for purpose and intent and generated from His perfect love. We can all relate to the anticipation of Christmas morning and opening gifts. We also…
Read MoreAiding and Abetting?
“Aiding and abetting is a legal doctrine related to the guilt of someone who aids or abets another person in the commission of a crime.” It gives us a picture of someone who positions themselves on the wrong side of right and wrong. In our role as parents, we must always assess our approach to…
Read MoreThey Are Just Kids…
I recently read this on a ball field fence: “They stand at the plate, their hearts beating fast, the bases are loaded, the die has been cast. Mom and Dad cannot help them, they stand all alone. A hit at this moment would send their team home. The ball meets the plate, they swing and…
Read MoreWhat Does It All Mean?
I heard Dr. Gary Sibcy, clinical psychologist, speaking to parents this week. He said, “Children are amazing observers but terrible interpreters.” Our children “catch” everything and process most of what they catch incorrectly. He went on to say that we must spend at least 15 minutes of devoted time with each of our children daily…
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